OK... I'm gonna be pretty direct here... He's a sad, and desperate man! Tell him you got a new boyfriend or something... (as I doubt he'll stop calling if you say you're not interested) Make something up, and hopefull he'll get the message.

My advise... do not meet him. He's probaly completly harmless... but if he thinks he "misses you" and "wants you in a hottub"... can you imagine how he'd be like if you ever met up... and you didn't like him? OMG... imagine trying to tell him after dinner that you don't want to see him again! By that time, in his mind you've probably been in the hottub several times... mighten even have gotten married!!!

he did a wonderful thing, taking in the mommycat and her kittens... but he's clearly bonkers! (Crazy) There's tons of catloving non-bonkers guys out there, you'd be better off with one of them!!! Hah-hah!

Best wishes, Sylvie (KS' mom)

PS: Being a little bonkers is always good... but too much of a good thing makes you "insane"!