After my first marriage ended I spent Ten years alone, I am social Phobic so going out for me was hardly and option, I tried a couple of times but just did not seem to fit in, so I gave up, everyone said to me you will never meet anyone if you don't go out, I proved them all wrong, I met my current husband two door's down, where my son was playing with his nephew, we have been together 14 years this August, so don't give up hope and just let them come to you.

Just thought I would let you know in NZ there is now a shortage of men, especially in the 25 to 35 age group, especially in my City, there are like two thousand more females, they say even the ugly guys get to pick up girls in the bars these days lol, looks like all our males are heading overseas, and older women are meeting younger guys under the 25 year group because they are the ones who socialise and go to the nightclubs and bars, my son was dating a 26 year old recently, he is 23, so this is an interesting fact, hope it improves for when my daughter grows up and is looking for Mr Right.