It sounds to me like a dominance issue. That is why I asked who feeds/cares for the dog. Dogs are pack animals you are the alpha dog (the one who is in charge) and in your dogs mind your husband is lower in the pecking order than he is. To remedy this problem, you have to turn over all care especially feeding to your husband. Make the dog sit before he gets every meal and all food comes from your husband. Your husband needs to become the pack leader and therefore will earn the respect of the dog. I know it sounds a bit odd, but it really is how dogs think.
Also is the dog allowed on the bed? If so I would put an end to that right now. The alpha dogs (you and your hubby) are the only ones allowed on the bed, the rest of the pack is to sleep on the floor next to the bed. The dog must earn everything, sit to go outside, sit to be pet, fed, etc. Once your husband takes back control hopefully the peeing on everything will stop.
Is he crate trained? If so and you catch him in the act of peeing, say NO and put him in his crate, if he is not crate trained or you are not using a crate, when you catch him in the act say NO and put him in a room alone (bathroom) for 5 minutes. The important part of this is you can only punish him if you catch him in the act. Dogs memories are short and they don't remember what happened 5 minutes ago. That is why it is important to say NO while he is doing it so you mark the bad behavior and put him away.
When you let him out don't say anything about it and go about your business. I wish you luck and lots of patience.
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