I do....I do all the caring, feeding, bathing, etc...but he does alot of the playing with him (so do I). My husband is also the first to give him a treat, lets him eat off his meals constantly (which drives me crazy!) potatoe chips, cookies, piece of his sandwich...so on! So I know they like eachother? I just dont understand the peeing on his things? I even left my stuff on the floor just to test him. He doesnt touch my things?