Thanks, I think it is just the picture, his ears were pretty normal for his age.

I feel even worse, the lady across the road asked after him, and said she would have taken him, she hinted before, but because she was heading overseas for a few weeks in a few weeks, thought it not a good idea, she has four other kitties, and was not sure her hubby would allow her another, and whether he would get on with them, she never really made it clear to me, and did not come back over to say she would definitely have him.

If only I had waited a bit longer, he could have had a good home with her, and we could have seen him as often as we would have liked..

I was already feeling stink about it all, now I feel even worse. I just have to hope he is doing well and is happy.