Ok I stand corrected on the kissing issue, I did indeed read it wrong sorry about that., I was not just referring to your post, when I said if you think their relationship is ok now, you are kinda condoning her actions of the past, I meant it in general.

I disagree , we do have the right to judge anyone who decides it is ok to have sex with a 12 year old, because it is morally wrong and lawfully wrong, JMO, strong as they are.

Frankly most 12 year old boys are much the same, they are still children.every child has the right to have a childhood, especially in our society., this woman has robbed him of that , no matter how sexually attracted he may have felt towards her, of course his hormones are running wild, she was mature enough to know better and she should have been the one saying NO and sticking to it.

I am only a few years older than this woman, I cannot imagine anyone in their right mind being attracted to a 12 year old boy.

This consentual sex thing really bothers me, it could be said my daughter's friends sister was having consentual sex with this man too, and she was not doing it against her will as such, but good grief, she thought he loved her and she was madly in love, she was totally confused, and he was nothing more than a sexual deviant.

I do understand what you are trying to say,and it is obvious you really don't approve,I just cannot fathom anyone being happy for them is all, it is incredibly sad.