Well you are entitled to your opinions, however I think if it were really your son involved you would feel quite differently.

I can just imagine being with one of my son's friends,good grief we are not even on the same planet IMO.

I don't have such a issue with age difference really, for some it works and works well, it is not what offends me, it is how it all began, so you are saying if my daughter who is 12 years old, fell for a grown man twenty years her senior , then to you that is ok, and if when she has grown up I should then turn around and bless this union,whatever, that women is a sicko, and nothing more than a child molester, how on earth can you condone that?

He may well be an adult now, and that is debatable, just because you reach a certain age in years, does not mean you have the maturity to go along with it, but it is as Val pointed out, he has not had a normal child-hood.

I hope with all my heart he finally wakes up and smells the coffee, and that he does not marry this awful woman, and meets someone his own age who can offer him what real love is, not someone with a sick , demented mind as she has, he has a mother for goodness sake, he does not need another, I can bet my life savings, this will not last.

I am still in total shock how anyone can approve of such a union.. it is like oh well he was molested by her when he was young, but now he is all grown up, let bygones be bygones and they should be together because it is true love,whatever.