I'm getting married this year, 18

in villages in india, africa, asia, etc they get married around 10-12 which is considered the "perfect age". they arent allowed to live with their new spouse until both children are atleast 16 yrs old. they believe that love will come AFTER marriage, so they arent marrying from lust, puppy love, etc. It must be working the 20-something year old couples interviewd on Taboo ((tv show)) seemed very happy with their childhood marriages.