In my heart I had already decided, but Dad did not think it was a good idea, but I do know that Melissa would have lived up to her end of the bargain, no doubt in my mind, it was the problem if he ever needed special care, or surgery, we would have to take that on, and we just don't have that kind of money and Ash and Lexie have to come first.

But I do have an update, that is exciting, I got a phone call about 20 mins ago from a lady who believes he could be her's,it is really her little boys kitty and he is heartbroken, so she is coming over in about 20 mins to see, she wants to take him anyway.

This is really the best possible outcome for us all, even though Melissa will shed many tears and me too.

He sounds so like the kitty they lost, apparently they shifted house and he was at her brother's home temporarily until they had shifted properly, and guess what the brother's home is not far from me, so it sounds like it is him, also he would not have gone back there probably , but journeyed on further to his originial home, which is quite a way away, and who knows what would have happened to him.

His name is Bobo, and he does seem to respond to that, better than any other name, we actually changed his name so many times, it was whiskey, then Jasper, then Cody and then Bubba, which he seemed to respond better too, similar to Bobo.

So fingers and paws crossed, she told me they had spent a lot of money on him, getting him fixed, and we really look after our cats, vaccinations etc, he has another older cat for company , which he gets along with too.

If this is not their kitten , I will be very suprised, nevertheless he has a new home with them.

I am still going to post pics, we took heaps this morning, but my Dad forget the USB cable, so we will have to wait, so be patient, will post soon ok.

Thanks for all your replys, they re-inforced what I already knew, and what my gut feelings were, still a happy ending, no doubt another kitten will see the invisible but visible to cat sign CATS DROP IN CENTRE, lol, and we will have another one to foster sooner or later, or a keeper one of these days.