Divorce is very difficult. You have to be able to walk away and know that there is nothing left. If there are still emotional issues you need to work thru them first, otherwise you will be haunted for the rest of your life wondering if it was the right thing to do. When I requested and got the divorce I had absolutely no feeling whatsoever left for my first husband. I have no regrets and am happily remarried for almost 4 years now and life is great.

Best of luck to you, however you decide to go. Take care of yourself, this sort of stress is very hard on a body.