Kelly I think the important thing is that you are really looking forward to the time after. That means it is the right decision - and it will be good for your health too.

I am sure you acted very responsible with the kids and although I held my breath I was sure Micah would come with you

I divorced in 1982 after 7 years of marriage but for me it's the same as for Laura: my ex and I are now really good friends- after some difficult times when we divorced and shortly after.

All the best for you