Donna, 5 messages on your cell phone and then she doesn't show??? If she calls back tell her just plain old NO. She will probably come up with some "good" excuse trying to convince you that she really is responsible, but stick your guns and tell her no. Your initial gut feeling along with these actions is enough justification and after all, she's your kitten and this lady has no "right" to her whatsoever, so just NO.

Sheesh, some people.