n_n. . I hate parents sometimes. Family in general. why do they have to ruin our lives?? hehe. seriously, I'm really sorry for all that you're going through, at times I'm very very happy my parents divorced when I was 3 don't let them get you down too much, you'll be moving out soon and just be determined to have a healthy, loving family of your own someday!

About lipo, you need to talk to you Mom about this. If she's getting it done somewhere for $1800 ( ) she could be risking her life with shistey doctors, infections, complications, tons of stuff. My Stepmom was skinny and she got Lipo, for "problem areas" (which is the only reason you should get it, if you can't lose fat in a certain area), it was VERY painful, she couldn't really do anything (like work, but she doesn't work anyway ) for a month, and it cost $10,000. For a SMALL amount, she really didn't have much to be sucked out ! LOL. . anyway, it is very serious, besides being selfish and impractical. She should pay back your sister! I HATE it when parents borrow money from their kids!

anyway, feel better, and good luck with everything.