Oh Megan honey, you sure have alot to deal with , for one so young, I am so sorry you are being put through all of this, I have tried to see it from your mother's point of view, but honestly I think it is time she GREW UP, she is being so selfish from what you tell me, she needs to put the needs of her children first for once and stop thinking about her own.

She is not setting you a good example of family values here.

As for the liposuction, well it is not something I would consider , especially if I owed money left , right and center, infact I was given a little money for my birthday from my mother last year, about 500 dollars, and I have invested it in bonus bonds, as I want to spend it wisely, and share it with my husband on a holiday or something we all need, I cannot imagine just blowing it all on myself.

Hugs to you, I really don't know what else to say Megan,I don't want to sound harsh and come down hard on your mother, because she is your mother, and you still love her regardless, but I just think she is being very selfish.