I'm sorry. I got a pretty bad impression from the tone of your written words, however they have a tone I don't know, and shouldn't have said that without giving you a chance. I guess years of being pretty blunt working at a humane society with people who dump pets for no good reasons and come in asking for new ones that "don't have this problem" has made me pretty quick to judge people. Anyway, I hope you are able to find a pet suits your needs.