I am terribly sad to read your thread , and I wish there was something I could say to comfort you, I know the time ahead will be so difficult and my heart goes out to both you and your parnter.

Tell Sooty, my lil boy Sooti, is waiting at RB to greet kitty and will show kitty the ropes, so not to be scared..

Bless you all , hugs to you and dear wee Sooty.