Oh Gini my heart goes out to you and your neighbour, this is tragic, and I can imagine how heartsick you feel about it all, I felt the same way when Juliette died tragically recently, it is the not knowing that eats away at you.

Go peacefully to the RB dear kitty, and Dear Gini I hope we can bring you some comfort and understanding, HUGS to you and your neighbour at this awful time.