I haven't seen what you guys all call the "nicer" pet talk. I joined in October and I don't know if that is what you guys consider "nicer." If you ask me, pet talk is a very loving place. Sure there are a few people who have done things wrong and have made mistakes but nobody is perfect. And as many have said I must say it to, Pet talk is a family and we will get through it together, one way or another. {{{HUGS}}}