I just want to add one more thing here to keep in mind, and this may not pertain to Tina at all.

Most of you are familiar that some people suffering depression will hurt themselves, by cutting or not eating or other things to feel/express their internal pain. Some people experiencing extreme emotional pain and low self-esteem will instead challenge or anger those around them, and when those people lash out, it is a form of hurting themselves. Some will say hurtful things to those they love and increase their self-hatred and sadness, or say things to anger others and further isolate themselves.

By no means am I claiming that Tina feels this way or is acting for these intents, but it is something to keep in mind whenever someone seems to make 'self-defeating' posts.

I do hope she can read and consider the posts with advice and insight, and ignore the petty ones meant only to hurt.