Don't Worry....

[tatsxxx11]

This is so upsetting to hear everyone arguing If anyone who has posted here truly believes that Tina is suffering from real depression, then you have to also know that when someone is seriously depressed, they do not respond emotionally in a rational manner nor act logically, and trying to "reason" with her through negavitity will get us and her, nowhere. She is not seeing things clearly right now, that's obvious, and it's not just a matter of "poor judgement" or acting irresponsibly. It's obvious to everyone that Tina needs help, something she says she is seeking, and in the meantime, all the negative comments in the world will not help to change her behavior. If we are truly concerned about her and the animals, then we have to be supportive in our efforts to help her to have some insight into her behavior. I understand why people feel frustrated and upset, but this is a person, a family member, who needs our help right now. Tina, forgive me for speaking about you as though you wer not "in the room." It is my great hope that you have supportive, caring friends and family members there in your "real life," a good counselor/therapist that will help you through this rough spot in your life. I know you love animals and have a lot of love to give. But maybe you could go back ard re-read your last thread about Jake and reconsider the reasons you beileved at that time, it was not the best time to add another pup to the fold. Honestly, if I were you, I'd wait until you got that nice, new house built, got all settled in and then took the leap! A lot less stress on the pupper (having to adjust to two new homes in a short time) and on you! And you could take this time, to concentrate on yourself, your counseling and spending time with the skin and furkids. Something to think about!