I have never thought of you as a whiner, but maybe I missed some of your posts. At any rate, we all need to vent sometimes. And if this is the only place you feel comfortable doing so, then go for it. It is healthy to let your emotions out, especially on such a loving, supportive forum.

I have to say though that I am glad you came to the realization that you did. Whenever I am depressed and/or feeling sorry for myself, I always remember that my problems pale in comparison to some peoples' problems. I then concentrate on being thankful for what I DO have, and try to improve what I don't have.

*hugs*