Those things suck! Really, I know how mad it gets you. That happened to me a couple years ago. It got really bad. But now I have changed alot and really could care less what people say about me. I'm pretty happy with who I am, so it doesn't bother me when people say things about me.

I suppose it's like this. You have to be happy with who you are. If you aren't, (not saying you are or aren't) then just work on changing a bit and being happy. If you ARE happy with who you are, then who cares what they say?

Back when I was bothered a lot I wasn't happy at all. It was partly because of that, but now, I am just really happy with who I am, so things people say about me usually just bounce right off, or, I take them as a compliment!