Originally posted by Kristl
He just told me that there are certain things about me that he can't stand and that if I will just make an attempt to try change some things, then he will be more respectful of my feelings.
Don't EVER change for a man! If this one doesn't like you for you, there's someone out there that will! TRUST ME! I've been through my share of idoit bf's!

I dated a guy once for probably 6 months longer than we should have been together . . . then we ended our 2 year relationship and it was wonderful! I was free of that guy!!! We were miserable together but we both felt that we just couldn't throw all that time away . . .

I'm here to tell you that you're NOT throwing that time away! You have learned a great deal from this relationship and you'll take that with you. I remember my relationship with "that guy" and there were some good times . . . more bad, but I did learn a great deal!

BTW, 2 weeks after I dumped the above mentioned guy, I met a new guy, my future husband! We dated for 5 YEARS and have been married now for almost 2 years! He is WONDERFUL and he has always treated me like a queen!!!

Please, don't settle for anything less than you deserve . . . and if you need to talk more, PM me! I hate to see you "change" anything about yourself for this guy . . . you seem really cool!