Tina, I read through your thread in Dog General, and I must say, I don't think anyone was really posting against you. Just because some people voiced their concerns, doing mean they hold anything against you. I think that with all you've gone through lately, you're just being too sensitive and taking their words too hard on yourself. You shouldn't. I don't think anyone holds anything against you. If you don't like something someone says, just try to ignore it. Its not like everyone's saying the same thing. Like I said...they're just concerned about certain issues. That doesn't mean they think the worst of you. I don't think anyone here considers you or anyone else a 'bad person'. Please try not to take things people post to heart so much.