Audrey I am very pleased to hear that, I knew the person was approachable and would never hate you.

Just wanted to add, I think when you live in your parents home, you kinda have to abide by their decisions, as you say you could have moved out, but the kitties life would not be near as good, so there is your answer in itself, maybe in your case it was the right decision, I don't really know.

You should really forgive yourself Audrey, and put it behind you now, and enjoy those special kitties of yours ok.