No one's commenting with malice, PCB, so jump right in! Actually, I think it's healthy to honestly express our feelings for a change, the hurt or offense we may rightly or wrongly be feeling. I think we all feel hurt in some way and talking about that is a good thing, and a first MAJOR step in getting to understand one another better and where we are coming from! I admit it, I feel miserable...disenfranchised and maligned. Let it rip, PCB