Cass this would be hard mentally for anyone to cope with , loosing two legs, its a big emotional roller coaster for him, and he is going to have many challenges ahead, you are a very caring and loving daughter, and being there for him in spirit if not in person will indeed help his recovery, just knowing how much you care for and love him.

I am happy to hear you will beable to go to California and spend time with him, that will cheer him up for sure.

It's going to be a long tough road ahead for your dad and those who love him, I hope you all can gather the strength needed to get him through this.