I will never understand people carrying a "label" to their grave when they never believed in the religion in reality.
Pam it is possible to be of a certain religion and not believe 100% of their teaching, for example I know lots of people that are Catholic but don't believe in every little thing they teach. Many women don't agree with their view on birth control. If a woman wants to use it then she should. What if a woman is married but isn't ready for children. She should abstain even though she is married because she wants to wait before having children? So just because you don't agree with a few small things doesn't mean you need to toss out the entire religion.