I think you've misunderstood me. I, personally, am pro-life. Does that mean that I'm going to say no to every abortion reason? No. There's three cases where I say it's up to the mother - rape, incest, or severe danger to her. Does this mean I condone it? No. It means I'll respect her decision and support her, if she decided to have an abortion for one of those three cases.
So in the case of rape it's okay to (in your words) murder? You condone murder then? See that gets real grey doesn't it. And, being pro-life means wanting abortion to be illegal, so now the woman who's been raped has to commit a crime, along with murder.

Death penalty? I believe it is necessary to have on the books. And in some cases it's the punishment that suits the crime.

Now, as a liberal I must lament the over-representation of minorities on death row, and the over-representation of minorities among those who've been cleared through DNA, so I can admit it's certainly not well managed.