I've always been small. The most I've ever weighed was 125, I think. I hated it, and, have since lost most of the weight I want to lose. I just started feeling lethargic all the time, and, unable to focus. Just always felt tired, that's what really made me realize I wasn't healthy. So, I started eating better. I'm at 116 now, and, am working out again. I finally feel better. But, as far as my friends go, I don't think I've ever intimidated anyone in my life. I was voted "most compatible" my senior year in high school, and, I'm not the hottest chick around but, I get approached all the time by men (from unattractive to super hot, all ages) and, they tell me it's because I look "approachable". Not sure if that's always a good thing or not. Ha. But, whatever, I am happy with the way I feel again, and, that's all that matters. I have friends of all shapes and sizes, all races and ages. Doesn't matter, just have a good heart and an even better sense of humor. I just say take care of yourself. If you're healthy and you feel good, it doesn't matter what you weigh.