I am so sorry. She has no excuse here. My husband has never ever missed one of my kids things - he'll watch half of one and then ride like the devil to see half another's if he has to. But he also has a job where from day one, he said that no matter what is gong on, if his kids have something they are in, then he's going to see them.

I myself? I try not to go to their games because I get yelled at by them when I don't watch the game - hey, if they're not on the field, I'm not watching. I hate sports. But no matter what, I'm there for their major games and for their awards ceremonies. I have sat through all of their concerts.

Perhaps your mom really couldn't get out of the obligation? Or do you think she didn't even want to try? I am so sorry that she is acting so selfish lately.