This thread seems to be VERY popular! Been following it from the beginning. I'm old enough to have had many cats. I am thinking that although I "connect" emotionally with my girl cats (like girlfriends almost) they are pretty particular about who else they want to be friends with and that includes other cats. My male cats have always been the most dependent and perhaps that is why they appear to be sweeter. Quite loving and docile and ready to please. The girls have their own agenda and so it should be. LOL!!!!

Kittenwhiskerz ~CA~