Redhedd, your story sounds familiar, as Noelene was telling me she had a cat previously, another stray, but it disappeared, she and her daughter used to hide it when the landlord came over, which was kinda hard as it was her boyfriend at the time, he is still her landlord but her ex boyfriend now, so he won't be coming over quite as much, so it should work out, besides I have met Ian and he seems a nice guy I am sure she can wrap him around her little finger still, here's hoping!!!!!!,