boys learn how to disrespect women
while they are still young

Yes you want people/men to notice you-
but too many young ladies are being 'taught' that they have no self worth unless someone 'notices'
them...

there is NOTHING wrong with wanting to be 'noticed' but for pete's sake why is that tied to your being a total person??

LOL,
I had a friend who would tell me that she wanted to break off a relationship but she didn't want to be by herself....well, she broke it off, dated two other guys in between and ended up with her old boyfriend....AFTER she she badmouthed him in the first place.

If a guy can't look you in the face to notice you
he's probably not dating material.