Tonya, I haven't been on as much as I would like to, but I have read this thread and I think your heart was in the right place and you were doing what you thought was a wonderful memorial for a young girl who I feel was playing with everyone's emotions.
I see that she is on here right now at 7:29 Pacific time reading the replys, I'm hoping she understands the hurt and emotions that have surfaced due to her prank.
What a terrible thing to do to people who truly cared for her, and grieved for days.
Dear girl, if you have any part of you that cares for all these wonderful people who love you, you will come in and tell them that you are sorry, and show a little respect for them.

I do belong to 'Best Friends' and I have been making donations to them for years, but it will be in the name of my wonderful, loving Kona who passed away four years ago. She also has a memorial there.
Jackie