no one in my family really has the time or knows anything about it and i cant send him to PetsMart or anything like that cause he isnt really socialized!
Why isn't he socialized? That should be a top priority at this age.

Why not look into any obedience classes in your area? It's not THAT much time, and you can practice your lines in ypour head while yopu do the class.

You didn't answer my initial question. When does he pee in the house? Are there people home? If not, how long are the dogs left alone?