I have seen these crates at PetCo. About how much do they cost.? I will try it. Also, I don't know if this is the right thing to do, but I have been getting up with Casey every morning about 3AM to take him pee pee and poo poo. Like getting up to change a newborn diapper, right? My mate says I shouldn't let him get used to this.


Second, I agree with the staying outside thing not being good because that's when Casey is at his calmest, at night when the whole family in in the room watching a movie and he likes to lay with us, and also he sleeps with me all snuggely, and I think he needs that.

This couple did tell me to take as long as I need and they would not contact me until I contact them after I have made my decision. I must give them credit on respecting my need for time and space and all of that.

But I look at Casey and I CRY! He looks at me like, "I'm sorry Mamma, I'll try harder" and then I say "I CAN'T DO IT!"

or maybe I'm so stressed by this that my mind is playing tricks on me.