Pam,

Well, in Joan's case, I am sure she will have help in the care
of the children. But, I'll tell you I could never have raised my
children myself if I were that age. The tremendous amount of
energy involved is mind boggling when reflected back upon.I
was lucky enough to #1, be able to bear my own children and
#2, be in my twenties when they were born. As to being a
surrogate mom, I personally could not do it (bear a child for
nine months, give birth) & then give it to someone else to raise.
I think it's a great option for some people, so I'm not against
it, per se, but not for me. If I couldn't have had kids, I hope I
would have adopted children.