I am sorry. People can be so cruel.

Even my in-laws can't understand how or why we love our cats and do so much for them. When Eliza (whom THEY gave up), had her bald butt issue.. they could careless. Their advice ? "just leave it alone , who cares" and my husband and I were frantic trying to find all possible ways to make sure it wasn't serious and get her hair back (which if you remember, it did with a change of food and some extra one on one time to keep her from over grooming!)

I don't understand people who think that way about animals. And usually once I find out they think that way, I stay as far away as possible.

That's what I like about everyone here... we all love our pets like our babies, and we totally understand when one of us is going through something with our pets, or just wants to share a story.... we know that if we want to tell something, that we won't get a weird look, but a "ME TOO, I KNOW!" and hugs when needed, and the most excellent advice..... there needs to be more of us in the world!!