hey thanks for the advice, i dont think there will be too much problem with lexie and ash, she is trying to befriend him, he warns her off but he is not vicious, and she backs away, so i think they may be ok, sooti unfortunately when he got a little older began attacking ash, and he was quite mean to him, trying to be the dominant male maybe.
i am curious about everyones feelings on letting cats outside, here in new zealand most people do, apart from breeders. of course i can understand why , but is it not a little unfair on the cat, i have always had my cats outside, i think if they are born to it, well they are fine inside, but i know ash just would not stand being cooped up inside, he would be majorly stressed, lexie well she probably would not mind too much, anyways i am interested in your opinions.