Both cats sleep with me but we have different rituals for each. Tanner likes to play "fetch" while I am getting ready for bed and then he runs around the apartment for awhile (like a mad man). Once I am in bed I read for a little and Emily will join me at that time (at the foot of the bed). When the lights are out Emily will move up to the head of the bed and settles down to sleep on the flannel sheets (she doesn't like other kinds ). After about a half hour, Tanner will join us in bed but he like to sleep at the head of the bed right by my face. He will spend some time licking my throat (not necessarily a pleasant experience for me). Then he settles down in the crook of my arm with his face facing my face (so I get to breath in "kitty breath" all night). Sometimes during the night he will get up and move over to curl up with Emily (the only time she lets him). But they are both more than happy to wake me up in the morning for breakfast!!