Mom's doing good. She continues to have small victories in being on her own. She still thinks dad's going to come home and be ok. The doctor had been trying to increase dad's meds and they seemed to help a wee bit, but not as much as one might hope - yet. As for me, I've kind of had to put them out of my mind for now as a prepare for the mediation/arbitration. They can again have my focus after Nov 3. Be nice to only have one stressful thing on my plate! Thanks again for continuing to check in on us and for keeping us in your thoughts. You're such wonderful people!