I'm sick and tired of that attitude too...I absolutely hate it when people don't take responsibility for their own lives, like junkies that are like 'poor me, the government should give me money because I'm a drug addict." well duh, nobody FORCED them to take drugs! I grew up around LOADS of drugs and I don't do drugs! It's a choice you make, and you can't spend your life expecting others to hold your hand, geeeeeez