So sorry, but in a lot of cases, what you are doing, works out best.

My son and his first wife just couldn't make it work being married, but they are now best of friends. They have both remarried and are very happy. I'm so glad that it worked out the way it did, especially for the sake of their daughter, and they share in all the decision making concerning her.

Best of luck to both of you in the future - wherever life's road may take you.