Sorry mate, gotta disagree with you on that one.
I know that people are quick to call it quits and all of that kinda stuff, I agree with you there. But the way I look at it, is that if there was one or two ladies he had an affair with, then yeah, try a reconciliation for sure. I'm sure many have (including myself)....but what happens to the victim in the scenario, is that it's something that is NEVER forgotten, it eats ya up inside, it really does.....and it keeps eating and eating until you've had enough and you have to do something about it. (Been there, done that).
You know, we are not talking here about a boyfriend girlfriend issue, we are talking about a MARRIAGE......and he bonked 14 women (that we know of) ????
Geez, thats horrific stuff for any relationship to handle.
I think it's easy to stand back and watch and make comment, and say "boys will be boys".....but hey....14 of them ????
Now he is trying to save his marriage....probably trying to convince her of how much he loves her.......wonder what he thought of his family while the bed was squeaking !!!!!
No way..........I'd be rid of him so quick he wouldn't have time to grab his shoes. He's a scumbucket doing that to his family, and should be treated as a scumbucket....thrown away.
No argument here intended.....my opinion only.
Wom

Quote Originally Posted by sparks19 View Post
Hey... if they want to work it out more power to them. She needs to be angry at him of course and she has been. and he screwed up BIG time... BIG time. to a point where I am not sure I could ever forgive him if I were her.

But GOOD for her and them if they are really going to try to work it out.

People are just so quick to call it quits becasue times get tough these days it's kind of nice to see someone trying to make it work and not just give up.

That being said I really hope that she doesn't turn to being his doormat and wife on the side sort of thing and that this is a REAL effort between the two of them and I hope he SMARTENS his stupid arse up and realizes what he has and what he could have lost... and I don't mean the money.

So... if they can work it out for REAL... good for them