Thanks everyone!! Its resuring to know I'm not going crazy
As for "family" helping me they refuse to unless I get rid of Mister and where that isn't an option in my book then the answer is no.
I should be ok I had an interveiw today with a company and another with a different company on friday. It's just the waiting game that is frustrating.
As for human food..I have a good friend who has a furkid and she brought some stuff over for me. Thanks again for all the thoughts and good wishes..Mister says hi and we both send our love back to you guys