Donna sweet,sweet Donna, you know what you gotta do girl, so GO DO IT, get him back,i know how you feel i have never forgotten Bubs the gorgeous wee tabby kitten that turned up here and the people who claimed he was theirs, i never felt right about them having him back, and to this day i regret it and my heart is still hurting over him,(still i have to realise if i had kept Bubs i would not have nikki and ellie today, and i would have been in a terrible situation then, so hurt no more dearest friend, GO GET HIM.