I have no idea where to begin. I do know it's a long process though. My husband's cousin and her husband are finally, after years of waiting, getting to adopt a little boy from China. They go in May to finalize the adoption and bring home their son.
I know Dusty (prechrswife) adopted one of their daughters, I believe from China. She may be able to offer you some advise.
Good Luck!
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