Hey thank you for caring enough to reply, it does help, i was like a firecracker yesterday ready to explode,I am much calmer now, although i did not sleep that well, nothing new there, but was thinking about it all, at the time,which was like three years ago, the whole situation i found extremely stressful, and i don't want a repeat of it all again.,it caused me a lot of grief and unhappiness at the time, and why I have so much respect for people who do cat rescuing on a daily basis, i am in awe of them.

Hubby put it into perspective for me, saying she was probably just visiting, i never gave that a thought, but honestly it looked more like she was leaving her house for the day,this is a woman who cares for people in her job, can you imagine it ,she cannot even take proper care of a kitty,anyhow i am holding on to that thought and keeping away from her house period.

My girlfriend say's i have every right to bowl up to her house and give her what for, after what she did, but i just don't want to go there, i can do without the aggro in my life especially right now.,my mother is my main concern at the moment.

It justs brings it all back, this woman is a cruel,sore excuse for a human being, yet she comes across as nice as pie,honestly i am not a hateful person, but i truly can say I do hate her,for what she did to my beautiful girls,and i wish her nothing but bad karma,maybe i will learn voodoo, lol,thanks for listening to my venting, but i know coming to my friends at PT ,they will understand and have probably been there themselves in one way or another.