Mary,

You're so right and it's a lesson that has finally sunk in. Wanna know something? After I did all that for her (grocery shopping, cleaning, laundry, etc.) she went out on her own after I left because she needed a few other things!!! I hate it when my good intentions are abused. Her husband could've stayed home with her rather than me driving 45 minutes one way.

*sigh* I give up.